As a little Indian girl growing up in Kentucky I would be lying if I said I ‘fit in’ Sure, I had Indian girl friends but the majority of the people that surrounded me did not look like me. As a child you tend to see anything that makes you different as a bad thing. Everyone just wants to blend in and not draw too much attention to themselves. For me, that meant wishing my lips weren’t so big and that I had a cute little button nose.
I mean how beautiful is my mom? Not sure why she loved that bowl cut on me but I was super pumped for cake in this picture! Some things never change…
It was nice to have a protective and supportive older brother growing up. Again, the bowl cut! I’m also holding my mom’s handbag – guess some things never change!
Many of those things I used to be embarrassed about I have grown to love and embrace as a confidant woman. I remember going to sleep night at night in middle school holding my lips together hoping when I woke up they would be smaller. Now, women all over the world pay to have foreign material squirted into theirs to look the same. How the perspective changes!
I’m lucky that my mom and close friends always encouraged my differences and told me how beautiful they were. I think girls can easily be held back from their full potential when anxiety over their appearance takes over. I’m so proud to partner with Dove again to encourage and educate young women on how to be confident in their sense of self and develop healthy behavior.
Now, I try with my nieces and nephew to always encourage their individuality without putting too much emphasis on their outward appearance. It’s hard because they are so stinking cute haha but I try! Dove is doing such an amazing job of bringing this conversation to light and launching the Take a New Look program! Make sure to head to their site and download a coupon for the month of November and support their products that make such an important impact.
I have always used the Dove White Beauty Bar because it keeps my skin hydrated, especially during Chicago winters but just added the Dove Deep Moisture Body Wash to my routine and am loving it. Have you guys tried any of these? You can pick them up at your local Jewel Osco and most major retailers and remember to love on yourself just a little extra every now and then!
This post was sponsored by Mirum Shopper. As always, all opinions are my own and thank you for supporting brands that make Lows to Luxe possible! #TakeaNewLookNovember
Love this! Owning who you are and loving the skin you’re in is so important! Great post!
Xo,
Lacey
http://www.theglittergospelblog.com
Totally agree, thanks lady!
I swear by Dove! It’s the best. I haven’t tried some of these products though but I definitely need to!!
The new body wash is amazing!
You are so beautiful! I love this post, so honest and real… not to mention I always love Dove products. Thank you for sharing 🙂
XO
Lee Anne
http://www.lifebylee.com
Thank you Lee Anne! I love how Dove supports these programs since I already love their products!
You are so pretty girly!!! I love dove product this is such a great post.
http://xoxobella.com
Thank you so much Bella!
Such a beautiful post by a beautiful woman! That is always the greatest thing as we grow older – feeling more confident! Plus, Dove is the only soap and lotion I use!
Maggie
http://www.polishedclosets.com
Awww, thank you Maggie! Totally agree!
love Dove product so amazing love this post
Monic
SIMPLY SUTTER</a
Thanks Monic!
You are so beautiful. Loved the realness of this post. And, love Dove too 😉
Xoxo,
Angelle
http://www.dashingdarlin.com
Awww, thank you! Me too – they do such amazing work for women and girls!
Such a beautiful, inspiring post! I also love Dove products, the only ones I use. xo!
Such a beautiful, refreshing post to read!!! I love Dove products, too!! 🙂
xx – anna
fleurdille.com
aww love this shaheen! and these childhood pictures are great!
This was so inspiring! As the only minority in my neighborhood, I definitely didn’t feel like I fit in either. Keep spreading the good word, girl!
xo, Alicia | Alicia Tenise
Aww the photo of you and your brother is adorable! I think when we were younger we all wanted to blend in but now it’s more important to stand out and be yourself! Great post girl!
Xo, Nina
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